My friends often criticize me for being indecisive. I’d like to think of it as me being easy going. Whatever the case, it just recently came to my attention that this may be a direct result of the lack of choices I was given as a child. Don’t get me wrong, I love my mom and dad, but they are a couple of control freaks and I was the [semi] obedient child. It’s taken quite a bit of work, but I am taking over the reigns to my life… and so here I am sharing with you the bits and pieces of my life — frame by frame — as I bring my life in focus.